Why are people suddenly pretending to care what anonymous people say online?
This is not an honest or accurate description of what’s happening. To characterise this as simply “caring what anons say online” is deeply disingenuous and utterly incomplete.
We do not, and should not, tolerate abuse in almost all other areas – in person, by proxy, wherever – why do you think that it should be tolerated online?
So, you’re “allowed” to do and say whatever you want, to be as abusive as you want.
And society is under no compulsion to let trolls ruin things for the rest of us.
Honestly, how entitled do you have to be to believe you should be free to vomit bile and abuse anywhere you please?